Going through a divorce can be one of the hardest things to go through in like. Prior to taking any action, legal or otherwise, it is important to find ways to take control of the process. Personal power is essential to this and any other fundamental human experience. The end of marital discord is the time to be strong and centered. Get organized and get going. When starting the separation or divorce process, you must prepare carefully so that you can tap into all of the resources that you will need at the appropriate moment. All of the emotions associated with the ending of a relationship like anger, fear and sorrow must be transformed into positive energy to manage your separation and divorce successfully. Even though it may seem that your world is coming apart, you must focus on a new beginning for yourself: a new life.